Synastry, comparing on birth chart to another, to understand the dynamics of a relationship is as complicated as human psychology itself. The first thing is that if an individual is not capable of relating it will not be possible to make a meaningful connection. Which is not to say they won’t get married or have a partner but that partner will themselves have to be damaged enough to submit to a non-functioning, one-sided association. There are endless permutations of planets to planets and falling in the other’s houses, of which interpretations can be found in websites like CafĂ© Astrology or in Sakoian & Acker. Random thoughts: Sun to Venus brings a harmonious bond but can be over-ridden and obliterated by stronger, negative aspects. Mars cross overs to Venus and Sun can bring a spark of passion and fire, but that can, in time, turn into an argumentative, competitive streak. Initially a Pluto to Venus cross over can bring closeness and intense feeli...